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My Great-Grandmother
How much do you know
about your great-grandmother? I expect many
of you will know very little except for the family
relationships, and perhaps some old photographs.
One of my
great-grandmothers was Ellen Cawsey, a working-class
Victorian woman. She was illegitimate and uneducated and
she died at the age of 42, nearly 150 years ago. She had
given birth to 17 children! Her life was remarkable,
given the handicaps and burdens, and her short life. So
this is her story - a piece of social history.
I must start by setting
the scene. The Industrial Revolution came late to North
Devon. But in the mid-1820s a large lace factory was
built in Barnstaple, which became an industrial town.
This attracted indigent agricultural workers who
included John and Prudence Casey. It was a good move for
them; John had been declared a pauper in 1827, and the
move to Barnstaple led him to relative prosperity and
assured jobs for his family. John and Prudence had five
sons. They were an unruly family. One son, James, was
transported to Australia - for stealing apples from an
orchard when he was only 14 years old. Three more,
George, William and Robert, were all in court from time
to time for numerous offences, throughout their lives -
mainly disorderly conduct. But the second son, John
Cawsey junior kept out of trouble. So enter Ellen.
Ellen Perryman came to
Barnstaple to work as a servant. and married John Cawsey
junior early in 1850, already expecting her first child
at the age of 18. She was soon involved in a tragedy. At
that time it was common for working women to administer
opium-based sedatives to their fractious babies. Such
medicines were uncontrolled and readily available. Ellen
had used "Mr Weeks' mixture", and recommended it to a
neighbour, Caroline Brent. And that caused the death of
baby Charles Edward Brent, followed by an inquest which
concluded that the mixture contained far too much opium,
blaming Mr Weeks, a grocer. Such poisonings were common
and led to the passing of Pharmacy Acts.
Ellen's own baby,
Elizabeth, did not survive long either, dying in 1853.
Soon after this the cholera pandemic of that period took
many lives in North Devon. (Could life ever be the same
again?). But John and Ellen survived, and by 1859 they
had 5 healthy children, all boys. In that year there was
the first of several incidents which showed that Ellen
was no shrinking violet. I will return to this.
Most years brought yet
another baby! Ever more mouths to feed. But clearly
Ellen managed the family finances well. And in the
indisputably prosperous 1860s 'an affluence came to the
artisanate'. John's earnings as a skilled lace twister
were good and were supplemented by Ellen's earnings as a
bobbin winder, and before long by the wages of the older
boys. And enterprising Ellen started a second-hand
clothes business, publicised by weekly advertisements.
That was clearly profitable. They were able to move to a
larger house further from the factory, and Ellen had a
'servant' - a 14 year-old girl.
But of course this area
was no place for the genteel - and Ellen certainly
wasn't genteel, as we realise from the reports of her
appearances in the magistrates' court. In the 1859 case,
Ellen had been summoned, and we read "Mrs. Cawsey,
having a suspicion that complainant had some hand or
part in casting a foul imputation upon her fair fame,
applied to her certain uncomplimentary epithets, which,
it was alleged by one of the witnesses, Mrs. Cure freely
reciprocated. " Ellen paid a small fine and was
cautioned to be more correct in her deportment in
future. A case in 1871 was very similar, and she,
together with a neighbour, was fined 5/- "for bad
language....... an offence against public morality".
But another case in 1872
was unusual, and local newspaper readers were
entertained by a long report of Ellen's complaint
against her husband, John. We learn that John was
quietly supping his ale in the Union Inn, when Ellen
stormed in, her purpose being to make him "bring his
sovereigns home for the support of the family". She hit
him with her umbrella and broke it. She threw a 'beer
warmer' at him, denting his hat.
His retaliation gave her a frightfully black eye. But
when three women took her out, she struggled to get away
and wanted to go back again. However her complaint was
upheld, and John was fined £1.
Their normal married life resumed. This
family photograph must have been taken only a few months
after the last incident. My grandfather, Thomas, is the
tiny boy by his mother's knee.
That was life in the
mid-nineteenth century, a time of large families brought
up by hard-pressed parents living in crowded conditions
with no mod-cons and threatened by rampant disease.
There may be similar stories to be told about your
great- grandparents.
Life will never be like
that again. (Or will it?)
(The North Devon
Journal was the source for most of this - and much more.
Almost all copies from 1824 have been digitised and
indexed in the British Newspaper Archive, where a great
many other local newspapers can also be explored online)
DAVID CAWSEY
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